Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Monday, March 9, 2009

thanks alot

Last week I was running a little late one morning, so I rushed out the door to meet with my early student without putting any makeup on. 

I didn't think it would be a big deal. He's in 7th grade. He's a boy. Why would he notice? 

However, about an hour into our tutoring session, he looked at me and said, "You look like you got punched right underneath your eyes." 

Thank you so much, kid, for pointing out those dark circles. It has been noted that I can no longer leave my house without the proper amount of concealer. 

Friday, March 6, 2009

how touching

Nothing says "I care" like graffiti-ing your loved one's car with a brutally misspelled birthday message. 
 

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Misunderstood

At our volleyball tournament on Sunday, we were winning one of our games by quite alot. During a time out, I told the girls to challenge themselves to try some of our more difficult plays. I'm sure I said something like, "We can afford to take a couple of risks here. Try some quick sets and start serving to difficult spots." 

On the very next play, my setter haphazardly dumped the ball over the net without attempting to set to one of her teammates for the kill. When I reminded her that we did not want to take the easy-way-out on this one, she said, "Okay, but if this was an important game, would that have been a good choice." 

I believe she missed the point. 

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Can you guess...

...how often I cook? 

This is a can of "no stick cooking spray" that Mark and I purchased on our first grocery shopping trip as a married couple. 
That was in April of 2003. 

The can says, "best if used by 02/12/05." I'm a little ashamed to admit that I used it tonight - 4 years and one week past its expiration date. 

But I'm also a little embarrassed that the can is still more than half-full due to total lack of use. 

Now that the date has been noted, I'll be throwing this can away and replacing it with a shiny brand-new one on our next shopping trip. 

Here's to the next 5 1/2 years - may they be filled with many more baked goods, and casseroles, and other dishes that require no-stick spray. 

And, on a more urgent note, here's to hoping that no one gets sick after eating my coffee cake at Sunday School in the morning. 

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

dance, dance

I took pictures for the Valentine's dance at my sister's school. She let me stand in as her date so that we could get a picture together. 
Although, I must say that her real date was much cuter. 
Watch for more pics coming soon on the photo blog. 

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Posted

My favorite photos from the Colorado College Scholarship project are up on the photo blog. 
Check them out here

learning to snowboard

We took our nephew, Caden, snowboarding this weekend. 

Mark showed Caden the ropes...

...and he slowly, but surely, got the hang of it. 
We are looking forward to the day when he will keep up with us and are certain it won't be long before he is blowing by us down the mountain. 
I'm no parent, but I believe this is what a child looks like after they have had a good day. Especially considering that this happened before we even left the parking lot! **Smile**

Monday, February 9, 2009

lock up your daughters

I spent the afternoon with a girl who just returned from a trip to Planned Parenthood. 

When she left their office today, they presented her with a "kit." A small parting gift -- if you will -- containing candy, lubricant, and a black condom. Her favorite color. 

Yep. That's a great idea. A sexually active 13-year-old who didn't use a condom last time will certainly remember to be so responsible next time. And when that one condom is gone, she will certainly return to your office to replenish her "stock" for the next time, and the next time, and the next time...

No need to talk to her about self control. Don't even bother telling her that she has value, that she is worth something without giving away sex. And please remember to not mention the STDs that can still be contracted while wearing a condom. 

As long as she lessens her chances of getting pregnant, we're good. 

What the Hell, Planned Parenthood. 
What the Hell. 

Friday, January 30, 2009

Freebies

While driving past a downtown park today, I glanced up and noticed this woman on the street corner. I was early for my meeting and I was curious, so I parked my car and got out to ask her about her story. 
She said she was inspire by this man and that she does this about once a week. I asked her how many people actually stop. "Quite a few." 

For a person offering free hugs to strangers, she was surprisingly reserved and...well...a little grumpy. She allowed me to take her picture only after I accepted my free hug. 

Ironically, I had to pay the parking meter 35 cents in order to cash in on my free hug. 

While I was standing there, this man came up and offered both of us hugs. She said, "See that's how it works. It gets passed on."  
I won't go overboard and say that she totally inspired me, but I will probably think twice about how much time I devote to kindness each day. 

Monday, January 26, 2009

Impacted

I did something this month that I haven't done since I the fourth grade.

I read the same book - from cover to cover - twice. 

Typically, I read a book as fast as I can. I love to read. I have a "reading list" that is one mile long. No time to reread books, no matter how great they are. 

But not this one. 

This book drilled into my heart, blowing it it wide open. 

It was straightforward. Simple. Beautiful. Terrifying. 

A continent, covered in graves, mourning a generation of lost adults. Millions of babies growing up without mothers. Without fathers. 

The book begged the question, "Who will raise our children?" 

And, like a schoolchild bouncing out of her chair with the right answer, my heart responded, "I will! I will! I will!" 

I had to read it twice. To be sure that I will take action. To get the facts straight. To know what I really want. 

Go now. Buy it. Read it. Think about it. 

Back to College

I'm working on a project with Colorado College this week. I am photographing the students who have received scholarships and the pictures will be included in a "thank you" presentation to the donors who made those scholarships possible. Here are a few of my favorites from today. Check the photo blog sometime next week for the completed project. 





Sunday, January 18, 2009

Go Wildcats!

I took my niece to see High School Musical, The Ice Tour on Friday night. 
Clearly, she was very excited to see the show. To shorten the wait, we bought some mint-chocolate-chip ice cream. After she took her first bite, she exclaimed loudly, "OOHHH, this is exactly how it is supposed to taste." It was everything she had dreamed of! 
For two hours, the wildcats of East High entertained with flips, twirls, and cool ice-dance moves. Our seats were a little high...but this was ok because Arlee was convinced that it was actually Zach Efron and Vanessa Hudgens down there on the ice. I didn't have the heart to tell her otherwise. I'll tell her when she's older. 

And what show is complete without $10 cotton candy and a sparkly plastic hat?! 
At one point in the show, Troy Bolton took off his shirt, eliciting screams from some of the older audience members, but completely shocking the preschoolers that made up 75% of those in attendance. As soon as the shirt came off, a wide-eyed Arlee looked at me and said, "OH -- MMYYY -- GOSH. He should have done that behind the curtain." Totally inappropriate Troy, totally inappropriate. 
In the end, a good time was had by all and Troy and Gabriella continue to live happily-ever-after. 

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Marketing Mishap

A conversation with my 5-year-old niece: 

ARLEE: "You know what? I don't like Hannah Montana anymore. Because, you know why? She took pictures in only her panties." 

ME: "I heard about that. What do you think about her taking pictures that way?" 

ARLEE: "It worried me."

Seriously. What was Miley Cyrus thinking? Doesn't she know her audience at all? 

Sunday, January 11, 2009

My kitchen...

...has never seen so much action. 

I provided the ingredients
and then had nine girls over to cook me dinner. 


I could get used to this! 
Pikes Peak Volleyball 15-Regional 08/09. 
Here's to a great season!